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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They'll figure it out, not your problem. In this day and age, social pressure would push her into doing some reason to go out of the house, no matter a job, business, art, charity etc.

You should appreciate that she is nice, has supportive family, college degree and is honest. At least she isn't duping your son by pretending to be a working girl with some temporary entry level job, make believe business or social influencer gig. [/quote]

I’m sure there are plenty of young women who are not super career ambitious & are hoping to be SAHMs. For some that may work out and for others it may not. Or, as someone else said: she may not like being a SAHM after all, once kids actually arrive. 🤣 Life is long and who we are in our early 20s (and what we think we want)  isn’t always very predictive of how things will go. We all know that.

Presumably your son is not with her for her income potential- given she has an art degree and is unemployed.

At least she does have a college degree and seems to have a close & supportive family. I’m guessing you have no other glaring concerns or you’d have mentioned.

Since your son owns his own place, her moving in isn’t likely to actually cost him anything. If her parents are giving her spending $ now, seems that would continue. He may tire of her once she moves in, for all you know.

And honestly: your son is only 24. Odds are it doesn’t work out anyway. Very few are marrying that young these days. That said, foolish to shoot yourself in the foot over her (or any other girlfriend) just in case they do marry someday. [/quote]

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