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[quote=Anonymous]You say you’ve ordered the same pizza meal for 10 years but do you think everyone invited necessarily remembers that specifically? I see why the host would know for sure that every year they order all veggie pizza the night before thanksgiving but guests may not recall specifically what is served because guests aren’t typically thinking about that in the same way hosts are.

Also, maybe the vegetarian relative wants to be considerate and give you the option of ordering something else this time and is offering to bring their own food as a courtesy to you and everyone else (they’re essentially saying just bc I’m vegetarian doesn’t mean everyone always has to order only vegetarian food when I’m there.) which is actually thoughtful of them if true.

Or maybe they’re just an obnoxious person who likes to remind ppl constantly that they’re vegetarian and act as though you don’t typically accommodate them as a dig at your hosting. I don’t know them so I can’t say. You could be right that they’re being annoying or I could be right in thinking they might just be either a) forgetful/don’t notice details like what all pizzas you order each year or b) thoughtful/considerate in offering to provide their own food.[/quote]

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