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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm confused by his response. You asked him to Uber so you can take the shared car to a friend's house.

My response to you would be that "you are very selfish."

I don't understand why he said "that's ridiculous" or "you're not listening to me." What does his response have to do with car sharing?

I think you are missing some details OP. Why did he call you ridiculous or accuse you of not listening? Do you know? Can you tell us? If you don't know can you ask him what he means?

I do not think this outburst on his part is about the car sharing. There is something else going on here.[/quote]
Why would you say “you are very selfish?” Why wouldn’t you say, actually, I really need the car today for the appt. Would you pls take a uber of plan your visit on a different day, or after my appt? Thanks [/quote]

Pp here. I never said I was the best communicator. I said that's what I would have said bc I was trying to make the point that her DHs response didn't quite line up with the situation at hand.

I do like your response better and had her DH said that to her things could have possibly turned out differently.[/quote]

If she'd had the sense to say to her friend "that date doesn't work; DH needs the car. How about next Monday?" things would have turned out differently. The sort of person who'd be this myopically selfish is probably a PITA on a few other fronts. That plus money stress = overwhelm and poor responses. [/quote]

This.  You making plans to socialize when he has an appointment was very rude and thoughtful.  Go a different day.  And job hunt on weekdays, don’t play with friends.[/quote]

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