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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: My daughter’s group is also (like pp) the “popular” girls group. Not only are they popular, but really liked. My DD is worried she would turn into the “weird kids” if she said anything to the group leaving her out. I really don’t know how to help her, because she has been crying every night but is too scared to do anything. [/quote]

OP, I'm one of the PPs - my DD was in this situation in 7th and 9th. She was also in a group with some of the popular girls -- but, it turned out that a couple of girls in that group had beef with her and started shutting her out. She accepted it for about 8 months until she decided enough was enough and she deserved better. She started reaching out to people she hadn't really reached out to before and now they are her true friends. The process does take some time, so there might be several months that aren't that great.

Honestly, it will take your daughter realizing at some point that she deserves better and find people who treat her like she should be treated. It is a hard, hard lesson, but she will be so much happier and feel so much better about it in the long run.

I'm sorry she (and you) are going through this. It's painful for all involved. [/quote]

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