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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. It’s nothing nefarious he’s just a workaholic. I often feel like I’m being gaslight that it’s a totally normal time for someone to work until and that it’s totally normal to just assume your spouse will make dinner and drive your children wherever they need to go. [/quote] If it’s not okay with you, then it’s not okay. Just like it isn’t okay to be a SAHP without the thumbs up from your spouse, it isn’t okay to work 60+ hours a week either. It’s not okay to unilaterally make decisions about your employment if they don’t work for your spouse. Now, if you are being unreasonable and he actually needs to work these hours in order to put food on the table, then you need to deal. But if this job is making your household miserable, then he should look for a different job where this isn’t the culture. [/quote]
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