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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You sound too needy OP[/quote]

This is not true.[/quote]

I agree with the PP I can’t believe how many times OP has sent things with no response. And she continues doing it. I’d have that “friend” on mute in two seconds. [/quote]

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, the DMV is the only place I’ve ever known where people wanting to connect with you/spend time with you is seen as an offense. [/quote]

Want to connect is ok. But an insistent want is seen as a demand. The DMV is full of people juggling too many things. People are failing to meet demands at work and at home. They don’t need people who give them more demands they can’t meet.[/quote]

So use your effing words. “Susie, I’m swamped at work but will resurface in a few weeks. Let’s touch base then about getting together! Xo”[/quote]

Why do you care? You’re clearly too needy and demanding to be friends with them. The DMV is full of busy people who don’t get mad at others for having bigger priorities. Sometimes people have exceptionally big priorities. They’re not spending their time responding to every text.[/quote]

Tell me you have no friends without telling me.[/quote]

That’s a strange response. It’s the person who’s angry and exacting who has no friends. The person who accepts and connects with people as they are have, well, connections. Some connections become closer and closer and turn into, you guessed it, friends.[/quote]

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