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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I went back and re-read what you started this thread with and I’m pretty upset that everyone got lost in salary differentials and appreciation and everything else. Your DH coming over and shouting “you’re welcome” and everything else: that was verbal abuse and intimidation. You’re in an abusive relationship and you are probably experiencing some level of coercive control if you are questioning if you’re allowed to briefly interrupt to keep a kid on track or analyzing if you can do xyz with the salary you have when he makes so much more.

There are some good resources out there that give a legal perspective on verbal abuse and intimidation and coercive control. You are vulnerable to financial abuse even if you think he would never do that. I would suggest checking every bank account you both have and monitoring investments closely. If you don’t see your DH’s paycheck and have access to the account it deposits into, you need to. Big red flag if he’s cagey about that. With someone like this, financial abuse is going to be slow and sneaky, not a sudden clearing of accounts. [/quote]

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