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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Um, OP, having seen your update - I doubt your ex has a house. He's probably living with an affair partner or couch surfing, but saying he has a house because he is trying to get partial custody and wants to appear stable. As to your question, I can just tell you that my husband's ex did the same thing. She left nearly all her stuff at the house other than clothes. Apparently she wanted to start anew. I mean she even left stuff like medical records! And her engagement ring! [b]My husband never cleaned it all out so *I* had to do it. [/b]He had a provision in his divorce agreement that she had until a certain date to come get her stuff and after a certain date, everything in the house was presumed his. I moved in four years after this date, so we decided we had the right to toss it all. He plans to sell the engagement ring for his kids' college tuition.[/quote] Team ex wife, lol. My DH, to whom I am staying married reasonably happily, would not clean out my stuff if I left or died. I truly believe he could not and will not ever actually take care of himself domestically. There will always be a woman doing it, whether he is married to her or paying her directly. If he ever ends up living on his own without the means to pay anyone, it will be or quickly become a hovel. He knows that if I die, I want him to hire a housekeeper and nanny immediately. [/quote]
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