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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH has long figured out the key to sex is to not make it an expectation.  His “game” is to run me a hot bath.  He will usually put in epson salts and top it off with bubbles.  He makes sure my AirPods are charged.  He then brings me a bottle of water and a glass of wine.  He turns out the lights in the bathroom and walks away.

When I’m done he has changed the sheets on the bed.  I climb into crisp cool sheets.  He puts on one of my favorite shows and invites me to snuggle up to him.  Sometimes I just crash but usually cuddling leads to kissing which leads to his end game.[/quote]

You sound exhausting. No man should have to put in that work just to have sex. I'd go get it elsewhere for a hell of a lot less effort.[/quote]

I’m not that poster, but how are you “getting it elsewhere” for less effort than this?  It’s literally changing your own sheets, running a bath, and getting a glass of wine from the refrigerator in your own home.

What’s your normal move if bathing, changing your sheets, and getting your partner a drink is too much effort?  
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I think what people don't get is the idea that you need to be cajoled into having sex with your husband.
It makes it seem like you view sex as a reward for your husband and something you tolerate if he's been a * good boy" vs something you enjoy it's a good time for both of you.

And I guess I can't relate to that mentality. But I also can't relate to relegating sex to obligatory days I will tolerate it. So this thread probably is for me or others who actually like sex with their spouse.[/quote]

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