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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just let him swim for fun and stop pushign competative.[/quote] That’s a very simplistic and dismissive response. Some of these kids care very much about their sport and by 13, it can be a major part of their life, social circle, and identity. [b]And timing of physical development is something that can’t be controlled.[/b] Dismissing a child’s concerns and feelings is helpful to no one. [/quote] Unironically, you're completely circular and self-answering here, thanks. What else could you possibly suggest here given that we can all agree that this is completely out of their control? It is what it is and sooner or later the child will need to understand this and resolve it on their terms. In the mean time, if not continuing to swim -- for fun -- are you suggesting a self-defeating grind to burnout? Or, something else?[/quote]
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