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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have four kids.  We’ve paid for college and grad school for all, nice weddings for the three who got married, and yes provided down payment assistance to the ones who bought houses.  In one instance, we even set up a private mortgage for one of the kids—where we were the lender—because they had just got out of college and landed a nice job and a great condo had just gone on the market at a good price right where they were going to work.   They had the qualifying income but hadn’t been working long enough to qualify for a bank loan.   A year or two later they refinanced and got a bank loan and paid us off.

The point is, you do what you can and adjust to the circumstances.  Giving each kid a set $100k amount for a “down payment” is stupid—you wait and see what the actual need is and help then.  And when doing it you don’t keep score.  [/quote]

Chances are someone is keeping score. I mean a kid who gets married and buys a house gets $150k or more and another kid who is renting and dating gets nothing?  I don’t think it’s stupid to give the same amount to everyone whenever you are handing out these sums. [/quote]

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