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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In a relationship for about a year, person is great but some things are raising flags. Says divorce is imminent but there seems to be no movement. Will not spend the night. Never seen their place. Schedule only allows them to be available for short windows of time, usually on a weekend but sometimes on weekdays and never more than once a week or every 10 days. Won't make plans more than a few days in advance. I'm a fool right. They aren't really separated are they? [/quote] Separated legally means that someone FILED for divorce, and started the separation clock. If children are involved it’s 6-12 mos minimum legal separation. During the legal separation both parties mediate and divide up the assets, custody time, etc, then do it. If one party isn’t actively participating or is high conflict, both sides lawyer up and it goes to family court litigation (only 5% of divorces do this costly route, takes more time and way more money/fees). Up to you OP. Hard to believe you’ve let this get strung along for 6-12 mos. [/quote]
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