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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In the bedroom. Has this ever successfully worked in your relationship? I find men can be too passive, which isn’t attractive.[/quote]

Women have tried their best to undermine men, and now you expect them to take charge?
Sorry, but you can't have it both ways.

Let men be themselves in their daily lives, and they will naturally be dominant in the bedroom.
Masculinity has been so criticized that many men are afraid to show any signs of being dominant.
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Because most men don’t actually display masculinity.

Mine is extremely masculine. He anticipates my every need and fulfills it beforehand, like if my car needs an oil change I don’t even have to ask, it’s handled. He grew up on a ranch and can do everything from shoeing a horse to handling firearms to fixing literally anything. He’s literally the only man I’ve ever met who I would 100% trust in an emergency. He still opens every door for me, pulls out my chair, takes me on dates, compliments how I look. He can run a 5 minute mile and knock out 20 pull-ups. He consults with me before making decisions and always makes the decision that benefits us, not just him. I’ve never seen him even glance at another woman and he treats all women with respect. And yes, he’s dominant in bed but also gentle and caring and checks to make sure I’m okay.

Too many boys are larping masculinity by just being loud, pushy, and obnoxious. I’ll be damned if some pudgy potato who can’t even change a flat tire and thinks “masculinity” is ranting in YouTube comments sections is going to try to boss me around in or out of the bedroom. [/quote]

NP. Would you mind commenting honestly about his porn use? I’ve just realized that 95% of men seem to think it’s normal to do it at least sometimes. I’m looking for a masculine guy too so I guess I have no chance of finding one that rejects porn.[/quote]

Why would you want a man that rejects porn? Are you asexual looking for an asexual?[/quote]

Some men link sex and intimacy. Porn is basically gynecology. Always totally lacking in intimacy. [/quote]

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