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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in this boat some years ago. Dh seemed to be attracted to anyone but me. Personality wise he still talked endlessly and loved spending time with me over anyone else but just didn't seem attracted, never complimented or looked at me. We had young kids and it was survival mode combined with other stressful issues. I got to such a low point because I cared about it a lot, not even sure why now. I had to get past caring about it and just focus on leaving my need for his attraction out of my top concerns. Somehow that turned the situation around and he has been very complimentary and obviously attracted for a while now but it doesn't seem as important anymore. Something I wanted doesn't feel as amazing once I stopped caring about it. I'm glad to have it but I wish it was there when I could have used it. Now I'm just sad I once cared so much and expended energy and stress over it. You have to love yourself first and if you put a lot of care into someone who is not reciprocating, turn that care back on yourself.[/quote]

Well said!  What you focus on drives your behavior, life experience and self esteem.  Sounds like you are in a great place.[/quote]

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