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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My xH was like this. I’ve always been a solid 8 for my age, I get plenty of attention from other men, yet he never had any interest in me. And yea, it absolutely kills your soul.

Is your spouse male or female? Overall they lose interest for different reasons. [/quote]

PP here. Female partner.[/quote]

Men will sacrifice their happiness for their marriage and family. Women will sacrifice their marriage and family for their happiness.[/quote]
Hmm. Exact opposite for people I know and all the books I read about cheating and divorce. It’s mostly the men who are abandoning their family for the decade+ younger secretary/coworker. Hell, most of them ending up writing the lids out of their will. [/quote]
Yep, it goes against all statistical evidence about men’s behavior especially about things like the high rate at which they abandon their spouse when she gets sick. [/quote]

Both sexes are victims of their own intolerance, insecurities and boredom, considering they cheat at the same rates.  The difference is 70+% of divorces are initiated by the woman.  I saw some stats regarding divorce that studied divorce rates among straight and gay marriages.  The study showed straight and lesbian divorce rates were about equal and cited similar reasons (negligence, mistreatment, etc), but marriages between men had significantly lower divorce rates.  Not sure how that plays into your theory.[/quote]

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