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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not just a lot of questionable marriages, but questionable federal employees being discussed here, too.

In my career I've had to discipline and even remove a lot of dud employees who rose up through the Peter Principle to GS-13 and 14, and then got bitter because they could never get into the inner circle of SESs and higher-position GS-15s with broad spans of control.

If the OP's husband is a dud at home, trust me... he's a dud at work, too.

In a long career of both private industry and public service, I've always observed that the strongest performers on the job are also the ones who have a stable and successful marriage, successful kids, and the family is involved with community leadership too (leadership roles in scouts, volunteering for school PTA, and so on.)

And people who suck in one part of their life always suck at all other aspects of life.
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Totally. Because it's about their executive functioning. My husband is a member of the Senior Executive Functioning Service, truly.

Myself, I've got good executive functioning but poor physical health and am far too introverted, so I'm content as a 14 and enjoy my job.[/quote]

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