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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH grew up with a beloved dad who yelled whenever he was angry, frustrated, or impatient, and DH behaved the same in the early years of our marriage. I found it appalling and hurtful, and yelled back often in the first couple years. Otherwise it felt like he was trying to dominate me into submission, and I wasn’t having that. Eventually I stopped engaging when he’d fly off the handle and ultimately got through to him that this was a disrespectful way to treat your spouse. He now yells at me maybe once a year max. He still yells at our teens sometimes, almost always over dumb stuff when he’s stressed. I’ve helped them to understand this is a learned behavior from his childhood and that they need to not internalize it or repeat the pattern when they are adults.[/quote] Yikes, well that’s a good change for the better. [/quote]
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