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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why isn't he putting a portion of his severance towards health insurance and daycare. Not h understanding why he's entirely off the hook. [/quote]
I guess I figured I'd take it on while hes unemployed because when it runs out my kids are going to lose their other home. I was trying to make his runway longer with his severance since I have income, but maybe that's night the right thought? Im trying to minimize my kids transitions[/quote]

You’re not helping your kids by doing this. You’re helping him. You’re still acting like his wife and trying to do the background work so his life runs smoothly.

Right now you’re sacrificing your children’s wellbeing by taking it upon yourself to solve your exs financial problems.

If he’s supposed to provide health insurance, he needs to pay for health insurance. If he’s supposed to pay for 60% of daycare, he needs to pay that. You’re enabling him to be in contempt of court.

Stop. You’re not helping your children by desperately clinging to the wife role. You’re the ex no matter how much you set yourself on fire to keep him warm. Just stop.

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