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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - when and how did your affair start?[/quote] it started around the time of our separation. New Guy is a family friend and he and I have always felt attraction. he separated from his DW around the same time as my STBX and I did.[/quote] Yep, that's an affair. In your mind, you have now started revisionist history and rewriting your marriage. You will soon impart on DARVO (Deny, attack, reverse victim, offender) If you are good person, you will stop this and work on your marriage, as you should. If you are a bad person and continue your affair, realize that the fallout for your husband, children, family, friends, generational trauma is your fault alone.[/quote]
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