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[quote=Anonymous]Op it’s good you realize this. I realized too late that I was the alpha / teacher in bed and life in late 20s relationship and married the guy. Then everything unraveled and the sx is terrible unless I do my thing. Lead. Which is not attractive to me while I also road the house, kids, messes, schedule, my own job, coddle him with his job demands, etc. I dream of my college love, where in that trusted relationship we co-lead and tag teamed everything - sx, cooking, traveling, studying, growing as people. Net/net— try to figure out what he’s adding to the relationship, to sx, to your life now, bc it will help not go downhill from there. And make sure it’s not YOU doing all the work and him bidding and tagging along- in the bed, in the kitchen, in the planning, in the talking. That $hit gets utterly exhausting once more adult responsibilities get layered on. If one person is doing everything and the other sits around waiting to be summoned. [/quote]
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