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Reply to "If your spouse works a lot, how do you manage expectations about your own availability?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just gave up work and put the kids first. It sucks but for me it felt like the right thing to do. [/quote] OP here but I truly don’t understand what this has to do with my post? Are you saying my husband should quit his job because he can’t manage boundaries? Or I, who spends a ton of time with my kids and have carved out a flexible, well paying job that allows me to be with them the majority of the time they are not in school, should quit my job and be available to my husband on call…for my kids somehow? I earn a good salary and have job security because I have a lot of technical knowledge in a fast moving industry. I am very in demand now, but it would only take a few years out of the industry for that to no longer be the case. I would absolutely do it if my kids needed it, but they don’t. [/quote]
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