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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly I would tell him straight out "I am not available 24/7 for you to come in and out of family life as you please. I have a schedule too. We can talk about you changing jobs."[/quote] NP. I said this, pretty much. DH’s response to my pushback: filed for divorce without warning. I live in a state outside the dmv that favors 50:50 and flexing custody around the higher earners’ schedule, especially if they travel erratically and frequently for work. If anything, my life now revolves around his schedule more than ever before. It’s a trap either way. I wish I could give better advice but that’s my experience. [/quote]
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