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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand why lying is ok?

Discuss it with your spouse. If you get a vasectomy/tubal, and a postnup which protects your children, then there are ethical ways to have a side partner.

Why is that too much work if this is such a “need”.

I always get the impression people here are lazy. “How can I fix my problem by doing no work” well, like most things, you can’t![/quote]

Things always take work. The question is where it makes sense to focus a finite amount of effort. Engaging with a crazy quasi-spouse is high-effort, low-reward.[/quote]

Oh, no, that's stinkin' thinking. If your spouse is, in fact, crazy, focusing your energy on divorcing as cleanly as possible is the highest-reward track possible. Cheating and getting caught has never reduced the "crazy" in this dynamic, and you're incredibly foolish to think it would.

You're also probably the root cause of the "crazy", so just do yourself and your "quasi-spouse" the favor of separating and filing for divorce before you do more crazymaking shit.[/quote]

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