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[quote=Anonymous]OP I say this as a divorced 50 yo woman who separated at 42- focus on yourself. The aps are toxic and will increase your frustration and over time will cause you to be rather disgusted by men (not the good guys fault, there are good men out there, I love men!) but the barrage of fruitless conversations and low availability or low desirability men means you only interact with the bad ones.

I would focus on becoming a solo parent if you’re sure you want to be a mother- your age group is really hard.

I’d join a pickleball league. Sign up for an art class. Volunteer with a cause you’re passionate about. Go to meetups! Join local hiking or running or yoga groups- whatever you’re actually interested in. Meet people with common interests. Develop an identity and passions outside of a partner. Take a few years! But don’t think a man is the plan as if you’re relying on OLD it’s hugely disappointing.  I used it at first- years ago- but they’re a waste of time way best and downright damaging in my opinion. To both sexes.

Go become a full person not just a recently separated thirst trap and give yourself actual time to heal. If you want to be a parent be one and control it rather than feeling panicked to mate with anyone “okayish” as it’s a lifetime of hell having a shitty ex. [/quote]

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