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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The wife needs to be a bit of a freak.  Someone who learned how to please herself at a young age and has a dirtier-than-average mind.  That’s to get her closer to the wavelength of the average guy.[/quote]

I don’t disagree but I’m troubled that you describe such a woman as a “freak.”  This is a large part of the problem. Women are socialized NOT  to learn how to please themselves, or have a dirty mind, and when they do, you call them a freak (and probably a “slut” they you would bang but not marry if you met her in college).  Yet, that’s who you wish you married 20 years later when your “nice girl” wife is over sex.

Maybe we need to think about raising boys and men not to be so judgmental about women who are comfortable so the their bodies and sex, so there are more of them![/quote]

Preach!

Some men practically select for frigidity and then get surprised by the dead bedroom.  Guys, here is a PSA: if a reasonably fit and attractive young woman likes sex, she is having it.  And if she is having it, she probably has a “body count”.[/quote]

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