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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think you are looking for validation that you need to seek within yourself, in therapy. So much of what you say you have dealt with in the past decade is, in part, a result of you accepting some terrible behavior on the part of your ex. Your next task is to really dive into therapy not only to deal with the feelings of the marriage dissolving and your anger at him, and confusion at how he's turned others against you, but also the dynamics of the relationship in the first place and why you let this guy steal your dreams and what you might do differently in the future. Arguing here with people hoping to get them to 'see your side' of things--when it's kind of a pointless endeavor and doesn't really matter--is indicative that you do not have strong coping skills or self-knowledge. that's okay, many people do not, but therapy can really help you develop them so that you can process this one and so that your next serious relationship is a happy and healthy one (not that you should start dating anytime soon). [/quote]

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