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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, whatever you do don't listen to the advice to open up a bunch of credit cards in order to get "free" points to travel. That is a ship that has long past sunk. Points are getting harder to use, they are asking ridiculous amounts of points for airfare/hotel room and opening/closing up credit cards do nothing but jack up your credit rating in the long run. PP had a good idea - ask your ex if it might be possible for you to spend time with the kids in the ski home (when he is not there, of course) and see what he says. [/quote] Ignoring some of the other stuff in this thread, during the negotiations prior to the settlement, occasional time in our ski home with the kids was something that was discussed during mediation, and DH would only agree to it with a lowered equity buyout (arguing that if he rented it out over the years, that would represent the lost income for those times, even though we never rented it). I loved that house but the memories we had there are just memories now and it would not feel good to be back there. I think anyone going through divorce needs to be thoughtful about cash over memories and sentimentality. Also the kids say it’s gross now, so no thanks. [/quote]
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