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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What’s your concern for your child then bases on this text to you?[/quote] Dad is expressing regret. I don’t want to deprive my child of a relationship w/their father, but his past behavior has shown he isn’t a person to trust. Dad deprived child from a relationship with him, purposely. I don’t want to harm my child by exposing them to a someone who may end up adding another layer of trauma and pain into their lives.[/quote] Respectfully- you chose to make said child with an untrustworthy man. You can’t now decide that they can’t see them. If dad wants a relationship he has a right to one. [/quote] lol. Well OP has not given details of the child custody arrangement but I am assuming that based on the dad’s behavior and wishes, the court gave OP sole custody. So in fact dad does not have any rights here. [/quote] Yes. Dad wanted nothing to do with kid. He didn’t want any custody or any time with kid. He wanted to give up his rights to his minor, disabled child and not pay any child support. That’s not a thing. The state will force a parent to pay support to the best of their ability because people don’t have kids to walk away and be supported by taxpayers. (I was not aware of these details until my attorney informed me.) People can give up parental rights to a minor child if the minor child is legally adopted by another adult. That is irrelevant in our case.[/quote]
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