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[quote=Anonymous]I'm one year into my stbx leaving and there was a time when I needed to not talk to him because it was too painful, but at this point I [i] am[/I] over him, and therefore shooting the breeze is just that. I mean, we were partners for 26 years, we know a lot about each other's lives. I'm very careful about emotional boundaries (mainly because the big bonus of him leaving is that I don't have to be the receptacle for his one-sided emotional dumping and constant chaos) but I'm not going to avoid being friends with him. We share kids, and a dog. And currently, still some property and such. There's stuff to talk about. It doesn't mean anything. He does have a girlfriend; that's why he left. But if she feels uncomfortable about me, well that's their problem, not mine. She's the one choosing to date a conflict-avoidant serial cheater.[/quote]
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