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[quote=Anonymous]Don’t cancel on your longtime friend. You aren’t that important to the group planning the mom trip, unfortunately.

I’m planning a mom trip now with a big group and there was a weekend that worked for everyone except one woman, and we chose it. She reached out that her feelings were hurt and obviously that really stinks and I apologized and tried to help her feel less upset, but the cold honest truth is that it wasn’t worth changing the whole trip dynamic and planning for her. There are other people that I would’ve tried to offer up other, less convenient dates for me that would make them able to be included because I’m closer with them! If the birthday girl really wanted you there, you’d either fly in for 36 hours or they’d have picked a different date.

Your oldest friends are the ones who are really there for you. These mom friends (even though we all have them!) are mainly friends of convenience. If we’re lucky, a couple of them will transition to real, true lasting friends. Don’t be a flake to this woman, especially since you said she’s the type who is sensitive. [/quote]

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