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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This doesn't make any sense.

She has kids, yet somehow you guys have the exact same week on/week off schedule so you can spend an entire week having [b]sleepovers[/b]? That's highly unlikely.

First you said all you do is "hang out" at your place from 5pm-9pm, and now suddenly you're also hiking, going out to restaurants, etc. Why does the story keep changing?

First it was she  broke up because she wants more time, then you changed it to "my value only depends on my income!" The two are not the same.

Either you're a troll, or [b]you're not telling the whole story[/b].

Either way, it's fine to breakup because you want different things. I'm a single mom and ended things with a guy recently because he wanted someone who can drop everything and travel with him several times a month, and that's not me. It doesn't change my value as a human being because I don't have the time or money for that, it just means that despite us liking each other, what we want isn't in alignment. Not a big deal.[/quote]
No sleepovers, he just used her a weekday prostitute. Bang and then leave. Second bolded is the truth. [/quote]

I read it as she sleeps over at his place every night, they hang out 5-9, he leaves for a few hours, comes back, then leaves at 5am.

I mean, look, if that's true, I do give OP credit for spending time with her from 5pm-9pm when he could be out driving. I think he deserves acknowledgement for that.

But, it's probably not very fulfilling for her to drive to her boyfriend's house every night to just hang out. I've had those boyfriends where they never came to see me, I just went over and sat around at their place. And that's not fun.

It would make more sense for OP to instead spend 3-4 nights a week just driving (5pm-11pm or whatever he does), then 2 nights a week do zero driving and instead plan and execute a real date with her. That way it feels more like a dating relationship and less like Netflix & chill.[/quote]

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