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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most of my divorced friends have privately admitted to me they regret it deeply.[/quote]

No they haven’t. [/quote]

I'm a different poster, but I know my ex wife who I am still Facebook friends with confided to me she has regrets.
I remarried and my wife and I have 3 kids.
My ex remarried to an abusive Marine whom she would not have children with, but stayed in the marriage several years to which she says she regrets, Unfortunately, she aged out of her child bearing years which she now regrets even more.
Its a sad thing to live with. My main mistake I made was trying to invest $$ too much early when we were married instead of splurging a little more, carp diem. I think her mistake was not understanding what my motivation was. I really loved her and wanted us to have a stable family and life.
We were both immature back then, but in different ways.
She broke up with me and I remember mostly the sadness and pain.
I've completely forgiven her and we both agree we both made mistakes and would have made it if we had  compromised with each other more.
She has recently remarried and her and new husband who also doesn't have children travel extensively.
She seems happy which I am happy for and at peace with.
In the end we both ironically / mostly got what we thought we both wanted.
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