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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to ask yourself why you value gift-giving. And if you’re going to let that come between you and an otherwise good relationship. If it’s a deal breaker for you, break it off. If not, find a way to make peace with it. [/quote] She doesn't need to ask herself why she holds her values - she holds those values; he doesn't. OP - you're in your 40s. He's not going to change. The only question you need to ask is can you put up with this forever? My husband is like this - and I am too to some extent - so I'm fine with this behavior. My best friend, on the other hand, would never stand for this. Gifts are her love language. [/quote] Of course she should ask herself why she values something, even if it wasn’t something so base as material gifts. Her ex did it was not a great spouse. This BF doesn’t do and she seems to think he’s great. [/quote]
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