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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you’re incorrect. I think it comes down to the fact that American women can earn money and aren’t interested in providing free labor for others. I’d argue people in your village didn’t have good opportunities, including even leisure activities, and were expected to provide unpaid labor.

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Individualism mindset. Refusal to help each other even though it is what is best for everyone. “Free Labor” you mean helping out your family members??? [/quote]

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I would consider that free labor as it mostly falls unfairly to women who are treated as "less than" - in other cultures and in ours. [/quote]

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[b]A village just means relying on unpaid female labor. That’s it. Usually because people don’t have any money or means to outsource care. [/b]

Many Americans help out family members. There’s a difference between occasionally helping a family member out, and being a full time caregiver.

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#1, not necessarily, #2, if “unpaid labor” is reciprocated, it doesn’t really matter that it’s “female labor.”

I have seen how this works in my family.  People contribute their time, their knowledge, their skills.  Your 2nd cousin the doctor will come with you to your appointment when you’ve gotten a bad diagnosis.  Your rich brother will pitch in so you go on a nicer vacation with him or get your kids nice things for school.  Your older relative will watch your kids after school (NOT full time caregiving!!).  It’s a social safety net.  Right now Americans don’t have that- from the government or their families.  We’re big losers.[/quote]

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