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Reply to "Filled with hatred for STBX and trying to hide it from the kids"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should never speak negatively about the children’s dad in front of them.[/quote] +1[/quote] but to objectively say: Dad left for mistress Dad stopped paying any bills Dad is trying to take the bank account that was solely meant for kids expenses is all objective information. It does more harm to cover up his secrets and lies[/quote] No. That is not “objective” and is deeply damaging to children. They do not need to know details. Speak from the “I” — “I can’t afford that” covers a lot.[/quote] BS- saying "I can't afford it" to children sounds like a personal failure, which is completely false vs. saying Dad isn't paying his portion is exactly accurate. Mom doesn't have to cover up for Dad's sins. If Mom died, kids would see very quickly that Dad was with mistress and wants to spend on her and not them.[/quote]
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