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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a woman, early 40s, married 15ish years, kids are tweens.

We’ve never officially scheduled it, but I do kind of schedule it in my mind and make sure it happens at least 2x per week.  Truthfully I don’t have much of a libido anymore, but it helps that my H is a good lover and a good partner.  He’d have it every day if it were up to him; 2x per week seems to be the sweet spot where it doesn’t feel too burdensome to me and also doesn’t leave him feeling deprived and disconnected.  I believe marriage means that you sometimes do things with and for your spouse as an act of love and not necessarily because you have a deep desire to do them.  [/quote]

This is me exactly only a little older, closer to 50 and 26 years with dh. If we had sex as infrequently as my libido dictated, our marriage would have taken a sharp turn years ago. I’m smart enough to recognize that not having sex also had an impact on our emotional connection. It’s important to get frisky not just for his libido but also for our marriage. So many people on here seem to miss that. [/quote]

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