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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whether or not we have sex comes down to me (my husband ALWAYS wants sex), so if it’s been more than 3-4 days I will tell myself that we’ll have sex that evening or whatever.

I know this practice might seem archaic or antifeminist or something, but so much about my life and married life in general are just anti-erotic and I can’t just wait to be in the mood - I am rarely truly in the mood.  I have sex with my husband because it’s important to him and it makes our connection stronger.

He’s good in bed and cares about my pleasure, so it’s not like he’s using me, but usually I would rather lay around like a slug than have sex so generally I am doing it for him. I usually end up enjoying myself (or at least get off lol).[/quote]

It is really a shame all the high libido people can’t end up together, and all the low libido people together. I thought DH was high libido when we were dating, like me. Honestly, I don’t even know there was a term for it, I just knew we had sex every night and I loved it, and I assumed it would continue in our marriage. I don’t know if he’s declined with age, or maybe the newness wore off, but it’s a huge disappointment in my marriage. Your husband sounds like a dream to someone like me.[/quote]

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