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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't interview me! She didn't really try to get to know me, I felt like it was an interview. And I felt like she was just there for her, she didn't really try to get to know me. It was mostly about her. It should be about us. Am I wrong? Isn't a first date the opportunity to know about each other. She spent a lot of time taking about herself which is okay. But I am disappointed because I had so much to share

There won't be a second date. [/quote]It sounds like you are new to dating. Women interview.  it's a common thing.  You need to steer the conversation, ask your own questions and not let her control totally control the conversation.  You can also give very short answers to her questions, as if it was a bullet point on a resume.  You don't need to elaborate.  Example, yes am divorced as of 2021.  Yes, we have two children.  Why? It just didn't work out but we are amicable now.  The more she digs into things you didn't want to talk about, the less information you provide and the shorter your answers.  [/quote]
Why would you bother dating if you don’t want to discuss your dating history? How is “give her less information” helpful advice for people trying to get to know one another?[/quote]

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