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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So for those saying OP created the problem- what happens if you allow another kids in the room before knowing if the kid is gay or straight?[/quote]
Simple - don't allow closed doors. Preferably, if you have other spaces, discourage bedrooms and encourage teems to entertain in the living room, on the back patio, in the game room if you have one. Gay or straight doesn't matter.[/quote]

So children should always be physically observed? You really think a couple 8 or 10 year olds who are safe hanging out by themselves should always keep the door open, and you are goig to tell them that it's because they might someday want to screw each other? [/quote]

This. When my 12 yo has friends over, they can do whatever they want, play games in the living, roam the neighborhood or stay in the bedroom with door closed. Usually I ask them to close it if they yell too much, or they close the door themselves if the rest of the family is too loud or if they want to talk a topic that is more secretive (ie girls!)

No need to get weird about leaving the door open because they might be groping each other. I’ve had plenty of conversations about sex education, they tell me if they have a romantic interest, and I’m sure there are things they keep private and don’t tell me. I’m fine with that.[/quote]

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