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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They do because they are struggling to find quality men. When women want something they are on a mission. So it's to their benefits that men don't give up on dating. Women aren't going to admit it, but the vast majority are compromising big time on the person they are currently dating. When 10 women have at most 5 quality guys to pick from clearly most will end up with their options #3 or #4. This is why you see all these threads that have common themes about their bfs/fiancees/husbands [/quote]

If the women were higher quality themselves, they wouldn't be struggling to find a man. Some of us had no problems finding one[/quote]

It's pretty easy to find a partner in college or grad school. They are at similar places in life. There are commonalities in intelligence, ambition, and values. And it's easy to meet people in a stress-free, non-dating environment. It's all very natural.

Nothing about post-25 dating is natural in 2025. The apps were interesting for a brief minute. But now its some mega-corporation that owns all the apps, and their only interest is money. So that's done. Me Too, which was very necessary, had a big impact. But now it's only the high-risk tolerance men asking a colleague out for coffee or a drink. The blow back for a rejection is potentially career-ending. It used to be normal to meet people at work. Not today. The more ambitious people are not dating anyone in the office.

People also aren't having dinner parties these days. Which is a sad loss.

So where are people over the age of 25 supposed to go if they want to meet a partner and have a family? Before anyone says it - Church is not the place. And volunteering and so on seems forced. The people that are really there to help the puppies are often there because they really want to help the puppies - and not deal with flirty newcomers.

I think the biggest problem in modern dating is that there isn't a natural, organic space for people to meet and get to know each other outside some forced dating construct. Sports is probably the best. I do believe this explains the otherwise very mysterious rise of Pickleball.

It's an odd time. Post 25 men are quick to check out. And post 25 women get hungrier to find a partner. And we don't we have a great social world presently to find a balance.
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As satire goes, this is pretty good. Lamenting the loss of dinner parties. The great pickleball conspiracy. Good stuff, PP.[/quote]

as an introvert, approaching a beautiful woman on the street feels impossible—let alone holding a 30-second conversation. But pickleball’s open-play system solves this perfectly:

- Forced Icebreaker – You’re automatically paired with strangers to play, eliminating awkward introductions.
- Demographics Advantage – 40% of players are aged 25-34 (and growing fast). Nearly all are college-educated professionals.
- Skill = Social Capital – Women prefer playing with better players. If your son gets good, he’ll naturally attract interest.

The bottom line? Master the game, and the dating opportunities will follow—no forced small talk needed.[/quote]

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