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Is she on the pill? I was on it for many years and it killed my libido.

I wish more couples understood that, and that doctors told women about this!

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No. That's not what this is.

I hate all the gaslighting about the pill.[/quote]

PP you replied to. ??? This is not gaslighting. It happened to me. I am relating a lived experience. What's wrong with you?
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Read the OP. He isn't really a husband or father and has no real relationship with his wife. So she doesn't want to have sex with him. Duh!

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That doesn't give you the right to call my experience "gaslighting". You're being extremely rude.
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I’m not PP, but I did buy into the gaslighting that the pill kills libido. And maybe it does. But wanna know what really killed my libido? 3 unplanned pregnancies I didn’t want.[/quote]

OK, you've got to be a troll. You can try different pills. You can try different non-chemical contraceptives. Don't be ridiculous. And if you've been warned against side effects of the pill, what you should do is try for yourself, with that knowledge. The issue is when women take the pill and don't realize that it's that medication that is making them not want intimacy. Hence the value of the warning. The warning doesn't mean "don't even try". It means "be aware of how you're feeling on this medication, and know you can try others".
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[b]That’s not at all the dialog around the pill. [/b]Very few people are taking about experimenting with different formulations. People just come in all hot saying how “the pill” is terrible. Unsurprising that this is what people hear.[/quote]

We move in very different circles then, or you're a social media junkie. No one around me talks about the pill. Doctors just hand over one of them without any discussion over side effects. It's the opposite of your experience, and it's equally bad. We need a sane discussion of possible side effects.
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Obviously you read DCUM so spare me with the social media junkie stuff. Even the discussion on here is not nuanced. [/quote]

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