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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At 6, it's way too young to tell.

Our son was exactly like your child. At 6, he had Zero interest in sports, and no interest in being active. We took him from one rec team to another hoping he'd find a sport he likes and at the end, we gave up. He was also chubby and we worried about the health ramifications of the lack of activity.

During Covid, when everything was shut down and he was going stir crazy at home, my husband would take him to an outdoor tennis court nearby that was open and hit balls with him. Something clicked then.

Today at 16, he's a competitive tennis player and he's very fit.

All to say that at 6, it's way too young to tell. I think also what happened is that he realized that a lot of friendships in his class were centered around sports and he did not want to miss out.

Try to have your son try different sports and most of all, try to make it fun. Don't label a child as "athletic" or "non athletic", especially not in front of him as it'll become a self fulfilling prophecy. Above all, make sure he's having fun along the way.[/quote]

This sounds like my son.  Tried t-ball and soccer.  Zoned out in tball, ran around enthusiastically but kind of aimlessly in soccer.  Did running in ES and MS b/c I coached MS track.   But in 4th grade something clicked with basketball, and by 8th grade he was practicing for hours almost every day. By HS was a standout player on excellent teams, and people talked about how lucky he was to be genetically a good athlete.  LOL.  [/quote]

How long ago was this? It was either decades ago or your kid is abnormally tall and had a growth spurt. Nobody can just randomly start practicing for hours per day in middle school and become a “stand out” basketball player anymore. They are 10 years behind the travel and privately trained intense hyper competitive peers by that point.[/quote]

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