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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sleeping with more than one person is totally gross whether you’re male or female. Ewwww[/quote]

Sleeping with 3 men, one after the other four months each in a year is fine, according to you. But sleeping with the same 3 men interspaced for the same 1 year is somehow wrong! [b][Yes, totally correct, that is wrong.][/b]

It is so much easier to compare and solidify your choice when you are dating 3 men and you are dumping the lowest ranked choice as soon as you find a better one. This is by far the most efficient and least stressful way compared to the time when I was dating one person at a time. 
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It's gross and disgusting, and you will find that men have choices, too. The "better ones" are not going to commit to you.[/quote]

I don't understand what you find gross about this. I am expecting men to do the same thing as well. It simply makes finding compatible partners more efficient.

I think I slept with fewer men than average as a result of dating three men simultaneously. It takes time to really get to know a person, often 2-3 years. There is only a small window between age 24-28 where you can get the best man possible in your life. If you date one at a time, you have a shot at 2-3 at most. Whereas I was able to date 8 men during the same period and got to know them really well.  [/quote]

Were you meeting all of their friends and families as their girlfriend, or getting to the point of engagement without that? Did you pick one to bring to work or other social events, or bring no one, or deal with your coworkers thinking you were weird or cheating? These are things that people who are non-monogamous have to sort out, but they're not things anyone opts into for the reasons you're giving. [/quote]

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