Reply to 16 year old bf/gf

Forum Index » Tweens and Teens

Reply to "16 year old bf/gf - supervision"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Next time before they come over provide a large box of condoms - enough for them to make mistakes with - and several tubes of lube… be tactful, in a basket or something with a sweet note about romance. Better they start the right way now before winding up in the backseat of their car being watched by tramps somewhere in Loudon. [/quote]

Maybe sit down with the girls parents and map out where both families feel sexual activity is appropriate - doesn’t make sense to have different rules in different houses. [/quote]

You can’t be serious. If I am this 16 YO girls mother, I would immediately peg you as a creep. And I would keep my daughter from seeing your son. [/quote]

And that’s exactly why she should do this. The girl’s parents may seem lax and uncaring, but they have a right to know what is going on. [/quote]

Approach it with kindness, clarity and decency—describe your concerns about their activities and discuss the possibility of splitting the condoms/lube cost between the two sets of parents.[/quote]

Also discuss splitting car insurance and babysitting too?

If you can't afford $20 to prevent AIDS and pregnancy, you're lost, pal.

[/quote]

I think you’d want to approach the other parents a little more gently and not bring AIDs into it, but maybe asking them to provide the lube if you and your husband provide the condoms is more realistic and likely to get a positive result. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics