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[quote=Anonymous]Absolutely read everything on the Burn The Haystack sites and pages before you even draft your OLD profile page and start screening men. It will help with people you meet in real life as well. I would have passed on a dud man with major emotional issues and not wasted 5 months if I'd taken the Burn The Haystack approach. You will likely find that very, very few men even come close to being dateable. Accept that reality and you'll save yourself a lot of time, money, and emotional energy.

I met the man I'm about to marry by using the Burn The Haystack message (I'm in my late 50s), and it turns out that he used a similar approach to find me. It's designed for people seeking a LTR, so keep that in mind. You need to be very honest with yourself about what you are wanting. If there is anything that indicates the person does not meet your essential criteria, you throw them out and block them permanently. No wasting time on people who aren't what you want and need and no giving a perfect stranger the benefit of the doubt. Meanwhile, you have to be honest about whether you're in a place to offer them something healthy. Have you done the work on yourself to be open to a great man or are you caught up in your own crap?

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