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It's not about individual things on your list, OP but rather the attitude. What do you envision will happen when you're married with kids? Someone will have to make food for the children, you will not be able to travel as easily, and your time may be severely curtailed such that massages will be out of the question.

The reason people are confused is that it's not about being "high-maintenance". It's about presenting yourself as possibly rigid in your lifestyle. Dating and marriage require adaptability. You can't just add someone to your life and not expect it to change considerably, even if it's just one mature adult.

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I will be a mother first. That includes cooking, cleaning up after kids, limiting travel, limiting massages to be with them, and making all the necessary cuts to be the best mom to them.

I did the cooking and cleaning when I couldn’t afford to outsource. I’m taking advantage of it now knowing that it may change or stop once I’m married and have kids. [/quote]

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