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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To OP- what exactly happened?![/quote] 1. Unilaterally committed $1m to a club and real estate investment. To afford the purchase, he wants to get a second mortgage on our house. We already have a significant mortgage, and we are not young. He made it clear that he will resent me and punish me if I push back (if we can't afford that, then we can't afford x, y, and z), so it's a lose-lose. 2. Responded that it was justified because I "unilaterally" started 529 plans for our kids (I save less than 2% of our HHI in 529 plans annually). 3. When I asked to see his credit card statements, prompted by recent increases in spending, he asked for a break in our marriage, then went golfing while I went to work. [/quote]
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