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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, menopausal rage did not happen with me. In fact, these are the best years of our married life. I am SAHM whose kids have left the coop and DH still has a few years before retirement.

But, some of the reasons why there is no rage but a whole lot of love for my spouse -

- I am a SAHW. No pressure to go to toxic workplace enviornments. (Sorry, but if you have a great and happy workplace, you are the few lucky ones!). We have money.  No abuse, adultery, addiction issues.

- I have my own bedroom and own bathroom. We cuddle, we have sex, we nap together, but we have our own space.

- Domestic staff.  I don't ever want to tell anyone to do their share of chores at my house because no one ever does it happily and I don't care for the drama and the resentment.   So,  I have always had a weekly cleaner for the house.  I also have a landscape guy who mows every 10 days and does my seasonal maintenance for $$$$ extra money.

- We have enough money to outsource stuff.  I am a minimalist kind of person who does not care for clothes, expensive grooming, designer stuff for my own self.   So, I decided there is no need for me to save my DH's money and not outsource stuff.  My DH does not care about the money I spend in outsourcing things, but he will be pissed if I am a rage-filled spouse.

- My entire focus has been my kids and family, so since that all turned out ok,  I am most relaxed and chilled.

- I am not a hyper or a super-competetive person.  As long as I am able to meet my social and family obligations, I don't want too much.  I am not a striver. I am happy as a clam with my life as it is. [/quote]

Oh no, I didn’t have menopausal rage but then I read this and now I dooooo[/quote]

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