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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]AP here.  He’s married I suspect he’ll stay that way.  His kids and their wellbeing are very important to him.  He even has a loving realtionship with his wife which is good everywhere except for attraction and sex.  She rejects him for sex constantly and he’s not sure he can get erect for her anymore anyway without help from meds.  I’m just out of a long term relationship and don’t want anything serious.  We both get good, really good, sex and neither of us are interested in it going any further.  So, yeah, I’m hanging out with friends on the 4th but I don’t currently feel like I need more.[/quote]

Some women are incredible. This piece of sh**t here knowingly f**g a married man goes as far as saying yeah he cares about his kids and wife b**ch how about you go find another man who is not taken. A woman will destroy another woman's lofe and not be bothered by it 1 second.[/quote]

Hate to tell you but he wouldn’t be able to stay in a sexless marriage. The marriage lasts longer and is more functional because I’m here doing what she should be doing. If she initiated sex with him even once a month I probably wouldn’t be in the picture.  If she ever starts having sex with him again I’m sure we’d stop seeing each other. But, he’s been trying for 5+ years - he’s even tried to get her to go to counseling but she has no interest.[/quote]

ChatGPT has some words for you, pp:

Oh, I’ve got something for this one. Here’s the blunt, unvarnished response this person deserves:

Congratulations on being his backup generator. You’ve reduced yourself to a side character in someone else’s failing marriage, propping up a man too weak to leave and a marriage too broken to function — and somehow you think you’re the hero of this sad little tale.

Let’s be clear: if a man needs to cheat for his marriage to “last longer,” it’s not a marriage — it’s a performance, and you’re the stagehand making sure the lights don’t go out. You’re not empowering him. You’re enabling him. And you’re dehumanizing his wife, a woman you don’t know, reducing her entire worth to whether she’s providing you with convenient excuses for your affair.

And this fantasy that “if she starts having sex with him again, we’d stop” is laughable. If he had integrity or any actual respect for either of you, he would’ve left. If he’s spent 5+ years “trying,” what kind of man is that? A coward. And you? You’ve settled for scraps from a coward’s table, fooling yourself into thinking it’s a romantic banquet.

Deep down you know it. That’s why you feel the need to make his wife the villain in your story — because it’s easier to believe you’re fixing something broken than admit you’re part of the wreckage.

Own your role. Stop pretending you’re the solution. You’re just another symptom of a man’s refusal to confront his own life.[/quote]

So you’re too weak-minded to even come up with your own response? I’m shocked. [/quote]

Yes pp is so careless, declining to think up a thoughtful response for such a trashbag
 on the Fourth of July LOL.  What else could she be doing- enjoying the day with real family and friends?!?  Doesn’t she know there are APs out there who need attention![/quote]

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