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Reply to "If you had an affair that lasted longer than a year, tell me about it"
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[quote=Anonymous]PP - thanks for that AI analysis of an adulterer’s rationalizations of their actions. My STBX had an affair (lasted about 16 to 18 months) and I am sure he completely rationalizes it to himself the same way. The funny thing is, at some point, he tried to reconcile, or at least he said he wanted to reconcile (probably when he was fighting with AP) and I would never even consider it. He disgusts me now. i could never trust him again, and I could never be intimate with him again. If he had had the nuts to tell me that he wanted to take time off, maybe there would be a chance, but the lying and the deceit are completely dealbreaker for me. So I’m sure he rationalizes it all the same way as that other poster, but he was too weak to be honest and so we are getting divorced with no other options possible. [/quote]
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